2010年2月20日星期六

无题

今天是大年初七俗称人日。 意识就是人的日子。所以有着初七人人生日的一种说法。人日当然要捞生。这也许是新马华人的一种特别的过年习俗吧。七彩捞生配上生鱼片象征越捞越发。 我喜欢捞生。每年都喜欢捞上几次。遇到不同的朋友就想捞一次。

自中学毕业后,很一般好友各分东西。朋友忽然间偏布大江南北。一年要碰上一次都难。所以大家都很珍惜过年这几天能够好好的相聚与分享这一年来的点点滴滴。

2010年1月10日星期日

Summary of the first week of 2010

The best word to summarize my first week of 2010 is BUSY.

Monday: I been busy for the reading the oral pathology text book coz got one presention on thursday. I also need to prepare the power point for it.

Tuesday: I went to HUKM to attent the 8th dental students' colloquium. It is interesting and i really learn a lot from this events.

Wednesday: study hard for oral pathology and also the Oral surgery seminar.

Thursday: Morning got OP presentation and afternoon got OS seminar. The overall of the OP presentation is good. Dato prof. dr hashim said the presentation is well done. The os seminar also not bad. hehe....

Friday: Read the very thick periodontology text book.

Saturday: Relaxing. Went to mid valley to meet my friends. Night time i did vacum and mop my hostel.

Sunday: Attenting the MDA public forum. Completed the perio assignment.

2010年1月6日星期三

草食男

所谓的“草食男”,就是像食草动物一样,他们友善温和,但在婚恋关系上却总
少了些男子汉应有的主动
,所以他们最大的特征就是
不会积极去追求
恋爱或性爱方面的事情,而喜欢保持不温不火的步调和女孩子在一起。
放眼望去,你就会发现80、90后的男人越来越多地具备了“草食性”倾向,
一场“草食化运动”似乎在全世界的男人中悄然兴起。

之所以会产生这样的现象,主要有几个原因:

首先,飞速变化的成长环境影响了他们的性格。
当代“草食男”从出生到现在,这短短的二三十年其实是世界变化最快的时期。
因为外界变化大,所以他们对未来有着很多焦虑和不确定性,由此就缺乏了自信与激情。
上一个时代的男人通常认为,凡事只要努力就一定有所收获,而这个时代的年轻男人就大大不同,
感到很多事情不是自己所能掌控的,因此也就贴上了“草食男”的基本标签:
缺乏自信,也缺乏生活激情,而这一点很容易就会反映到他们的婚姻经营上头。

第二,经济压力过大
这缘于过去二十年来房价、物价的飞速上涨。对一个刚开始工作的年轻男子来说,
要买车买房,其实压力是不小的。婚姻还需经济实力的支持,
所以迫于经济压力,他们对婚姻的态度是很好,但不需强求。

第三,个性比较被动,既不愿承担过多责任,也不想受到太多伤害
“草食男”的逻辑是,如果过于积极主动地追求女性,最后可能会惹来一堆麻烦,
甚至会让自己受到无谓的伤害,所以他们就沿袭了草食性动物的本性——
温和、友善、被动、攻击性低、没有很大的成就动机,
认为“你爱我很好,你不爱我也无所谓,我不一定需要轰轰烈烈的爱情。”
很多时候你会发现,跟他们的关系总是处于“比友情多,但不及爱情”的状态。
相对于“肉食男”一旦嗅到爱情的气息,就会积极地发动攻势将爱情揽入怀中,

“草食男”的哲学是,敌不动我不动

我是否是草食男?

2010年1月3日星期日

Resolutions for 2010

The first decade of 21 centery had just been engraved into history.

New year starts will new resolutions.

Hopefully this year will be a smooth and fruitful year for me and also the people around me.

Here are the resolutions for 2010...

1. Pay more concentration on my study and hope to get better results.

2. Read more books to open up my narrow thinking.

3. Read some buddhist books for self and mind enrichment. And also able to participate at least one Leong Emperor Recitation.

5. Visit to one place with my family and beg-pack to taiwan with my friends.

6. Visit to KK and also conquer Mount Kinabalu. ( September trip)

7. Participate in some forms of volunteer work to help and serve the public and community.

8. Make myself more presentable. Get rid-of facial pimple problem and slim down. HEHE.

~to be continue....

2009年12月24日星期四

Merry Christmas

This Christmas most probably be the first Christmas in KL for me. Nothing special. Hanged out with friends and had a super nice but yet cruel steamboat dinner. Y i said so? Because the prawn they served is still ALIVE. Oh.. My godness... If i know they will served me alive prawn at the begining... i think i will reject to go there. I think im so cold-blooded.

Let talk abt this year's Christmas presents. I did buy somethings for myself. I got myself a CK Free perfume, a pair of leather shoes which i been searching for it for years liao, and one basic set of facial care products. These few things already costed me abt rm1K.

Christmas month is a great shopping time in Malaysia even though the stuff in malaysia are bloody expensive as compare to some others nearby country. But " boh-pian" lo.... So sorry for my Daddy coz he going to pay for me for all that. And 3rd year of dental student life also need to spend a lot to buy lot of to-be-waiting-for-reading book.

I got 2 christmas gifts this year. Both also are Tie which is one of the things that i need the most since i need to be in formal suit to school everyday. Thank for my friends. I like the tie so so so much.

Before i stop here, i would like to say apology to all of my lovely friends coz before christmas i planned to send christmas card to those play a important role in my life. But im too busy and cant manage to do that. Sorry. Hope that i can pursue my promise for the coming Chinese New Year.

>< Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.....

2009年8月23日星期日

百味百货-1

在百货公司里可以看到形形色色的人与事.

有的人来也匆匆去也匆匆.他们的步伐是我所更不上的.因为我不喜欢这种感觉.人生短短为何不漫下脚步来看看生变的人与物呢?

也有人悠哉游哉的逛着.慢慢的看.慢慢的欣赏.

我爱逛街的一个原因是我爱看周遭的东西.更实在的说我喜欢看人.不同人有着不同的表情.告诉我不同的故事.也让我联想起不同的东西.

看到满脸忧愁的人, 也许他买不到他心爱的东西?

笑容满面的他, 是否得到了他想要的东西?还是在商场里遇上多年的朋友?看见心仪的对象?

有的人很落寞.是否和另一半吵架了?

有的漫无目的的走.前面的人生对他而言是否也是无目的的呢?

一张脸可以述说千千万万的故事.不同的人有着不同的精彩.也带着不同的遗憾.

笔者当下的表情有怎样的呢?

2009年7月25日星期六

Post-holiday mood

I just finished enjoy my one week semesta break. Yes. It is just one week! I wish i cound get a longer sem break. Howeverm it is better than do not have. So im really appreciate it.

I spend most of the sem break time at KL also. Accompany my mother to shop. Shop everyday. Really tired. Hehe.

Started the second half of Year 2 second sem one week liao. But im still very lazy to do revision even though the final is at the corner dy. Abt 5 weeks time i think.

As usual everyday wake up at 7 and bath get ready to college. Then come back with a tired body. Take a nap then go out for dinner. Wat a boring life. I deserve for that? HAIH. Still need to keep going with this kind of life for the remaining 3 years.

Something really make me happy maybe is i planning to go taiwan during the 6 weeks break. It maybe a 2 weeks trip like tat. Easy going. Sound so excited. HAHA. I wish to go there since im 18 years old. But everytime i also miss the chance.

I become a very quiet person recently. I dun know Y. Just felt dun like to talk. Weird rite?

I addicted to a taiwan entertaiment show recently. Kang Xi Lai le 康熙来了. I can watch few episode one day. haih... But it really fun.