Summary of the first week of 2010

The best word to summarize my first week of 2010 is BUSY.

Monday: I been busy for the reading the oral pathology text book coz got one presention on thursday. I also need to prepare the power point for it.

Tuesday: I went to HUKM to attent the 8th dental students' colloquium. It is interesting and i really learn a lot from this events.

Wednesday: study hard for oral pathology and also the Oral surgery seminar.

Thursday: Morning got OP presentation and afternoon got OS seminar. The overall of the OP presentation is good. Dato prof. dr hashim said the presentation is well done. The os seminar also not bad. hehe....

Friday: Read the very thick periodontology text book.

Saturday: Relaxing. Went to mid valley to meet my friends. Night time i did vacum and mop my hostel.

Sunday: Attenting the MDA public forum. Completed the perio assignment.

草食男

所谓的“草食男”，就是像食草动物一样，他们友善温和，但在婚恋关系上却总
少了些男子汉应有的主动，所以他们最大的特征就是
不会积极去追求恋爱或性爱方面的事情，而喜欢保持不温不火的步调和女孩子在一起。
放眼望去，你就会发现80、90后的男人越来越多地具备了“草食性”倾向，
一场“草食化运动”似乎在全世界的男人中悄然兴起。

之所以会产生这样的现象，主要有几个原因： 

首先，飞速变化的成长环境影响了他们的性格。 
当代“草食男”从出生到现在，这短短的二三十年其实是世界变化最快的时期。
因为外界变化大，所以他们对未来有着很多焦虑和不确定性，由此就缺乏了自信与激情。
上一个时代的男人通常认为，凡事只要努力就一定有所收获，而这个时代的年轻男人就大大不同，
感到很多事情不是自己所能掌控的，因此也就贴上了“草食男”的基本标签：
缺乏自信，也缺乏生活激情，而这一点很容易就会反映到他们的婚姻经营上头。

第二，经济压力过大。 
这缘于过去二十年来房价、物价的飞速上涨。对一个刚开始工作的年轻男子来说，
要买车买房，其实压力是不小的。婚姻还需经济实力的支持，
所以迫于经济压力，他们对婚姻的态度是很好，但不需强求。

第三，个性比较被动，既不愿承担过多责任，也不想受到太多伤害。 
“草食男”的逻辑是，如果过于积极主动地追求女性，最后可能会惹来一堆麻烦，
甚至会让自己受到无谓的伤害，所以他们就沿袭了草食性动物的本性——
温和、友善、被动、攻击性低、没有很大的成就动机，
认为“你爱我很好，你不爱我也无所谓，我不一定需要轰轰烈烈的爱情。”
很多时候你会发现，跟他们的关系总是处于“比友情多，但不及爱情”的状态。
相对于“肉食男”一旦嗅到爱情的气息，就会积极地发动攻势将爱情揽入怀中，

“草食男”的哲学是，敌不动我不动

我是否是草食男？

Resolutions for 2010

The first decade of 21 centery had just been engraved into history.

New year starts will new resolutions.

Hopefully this year will be a smooth and fruitful year for me and also the people around me.

Here are the resolutions for 2010...

1. Pay more concentration on my study and hope to get better results.

2. Read more books to open up my narrow thinking.

3. Read some buddhist books for self and mind enrichment. And also able to participate at least one Leong Emperor Recitation.

5. Visit to one place with my family and beg-pack to taiwan with my friends.

6. Visit to KK and also conquer Mount Kinabalu. ( September trip)

7. Participate in some forms of volunteer work to help and serve the public and community.

8. Make myself more presentable. Get rid-of facial pimple problem and slim down. HEHE.

~to be continue....