2010年6月2日星期三
无奈的人生
日子一天一天的过着。我们的身体其实只是靠着那一口气来维持着。吸入与呼出。当这规律被打乱后我们的生命可能就此终结。
每星期二我都会到医院去上课。看着不同个案的病人。我们从他们的身上学到从课本上学不到的知识。也学会医生如何为病人看病。星期二的课很沉重。有得在拥挤与闷热的医院里上课。这也是人生的另一种体验。这些我都能克服。然而我却看到也许一般人所看不到的一面。人生就是如此的无奈。
我们从出生的那一刻起就得面对四种苦。生老病死。这是苦早在两千多年前已被伟大的佛陀用不同方式告诉了我们。佛陀也把如何解救的方法告诉了我们。然而终生就是如此的顽强。不愿听从。
不同的病人来自不同的社会阶级。但因为是政府医院看到的都是收入中下阶级的人们。有的已辛苦一辈子，刚好是幸福的时候。无奈的是病魔看上了他。饱经了为生活材米油盐 酱醋茶奔波的时光，如今却得与病魔打交道。有的孩子们都还没成家立业就得面对着死亡的来临。人生有多痛苦就有多苦。有多无奈就有多无奈。
人的一生好像已被编排好了似的。幼童的天真，求学的时光，为生活打拼，结婚生子，岁月不饶人，身体渐渐衰落衰老。。。看着孩子成家抱孙子。。。等待着判决的那一天。乍听下好像很可怕但却是千真万确的事实。
人生的意义是什么呢？我们应以什么为重？事业？爱情？家人？公益？财富？权利？每个人都有他所认为对的价值观。没有人能否决别人的价值观。这价值观也随着岁月与所见所闻所改变。我现在所认为重要的也许若干年后我已不在眷恋。
人生无奈。把握当下。做好自己。不违背良心。获得快乐。
这听起来很简单但其实一点也不。
愿与你共勉之。
每星期二我都会到医院去上课。看着不同个案的病人。我们从他们的身上学到从课本上学不到的知识。也学会医生如何为病人看病。星期二的课很沉重。有得在拥挤与闷热的医院里上课。这也是人生的另一种体验。这些我都能克服。然而我却看到也许一般人所看不到的一面。人生就是如此的无奈。
我们从出生的那一刻起就得面对四种苦。生老病死。这是苦早在两千多年前已被伟大的佛陀用不同方式告诉了我们。佛陀也把如何解救的方法告诉了我们。然而终生就是如此的顽强。不愿听从。
不同的病人来自不同的社会阶级。但因为是政府医院看到的都是收入中下阶级的人们。有的已辛苦一辈子，刚好是幸福的时候。无奈的是病魔看上了他。饱经了为生活材米油盐 酱醋茶奔波的时光，如今却得与病魔打交道。有的孩子们都还没成家立业就得面对着死亡的来临。人生有多痛苦就有多苦。有多无奈就有多无奈。
人的一生好像已被编排好了似的。幼童的天真，求学的时光，为生活打拼，结婚生子，岁月不饶人，身体渐渐衰落衰老。。。看着孩子成家抱孙子。。。等待着判决的那一天。乍听下好像很可怕但却是千真万确的事实。
人生的意义是什么呢？我们应以什么为重？事业？爱情？家人？公益？财富？权利？每个人都有他所认为对的价值观。没有人能否决别人的价值观。这价值观也随着岁月与所见所闻所改变。我现在所认为重要的也许若干年后我已不在眷恋。
人生无奈。把握当下。做好自己。不违背良心。获得快乐。
这听起来很简单但其实一点也不。
愿与你共勉之。
2010年5月28日星期五
CHANGE
It has been a long time i never update my blog. Actually i got plenty of things which i wanted to share here but i am just too lazy to do so. Im so sorry for that.
The life of being a student really not easy. Especially your course is a five years course and you deal with human beings. The long duration make me suffocated. I think the same applied to my coursemates also. When your friends start graduate and working while you still a student. The gap between us will eventually grow wider. Dealing with patients is really not easy. Somemore i am just a student and sometime the patient will say " i thought is the doctor will do treatment on me." Somemore we need to follow the proper examination and diagnosis, it make each appointment takes a longer time and patients need to come frequently. That really depends on the compliance of the patients. But my lecturer told us that we must polish the way we communicate with the patients in order to gain the confidence of patient on us who are still a student.
Then as we grow older, we start to bore with the single life and prefer someone to accompany us and give us encouragement and share the hustle bustle of everyday life. We some ppl started to look for a companion. Some ppl are very brave to look for one and take initiative to start a relationship. Some ppl need the courage from his/her friends that around to take initiative. Some will ask the admire one to go out and trying to see if they are mean to be together. Some will just sit and wait for god to give him/her one. I cant comment on this coz i am still single and i don really wan a relationship by now. So ppl, when you see what i had written here... NO OFFENCE ah... ( my coursemates like to say NO OFFENCE recently)
Nothing is permanent. This is according to Buddism. I fully agree with this simple yet cruel truth. That is why the american president say CHANGE. Recently the world really change a lots. The weather is changing. The people is changing. The goverment is changing. Everything is changing. Myself is also changing. Sometime im wondering what do i wan actually? I wan money? family? love? spiritual? I am lost. At first i choose dentistry as my future field because i wan to help ppl especially those who are poor and cant affort the bill. But now i start thinking to make money future. I wan to be a specialist dentist coz i wan to earn more. I really hate myself sometime. HAHA. But my mom asked me not to think so much. Concentrate on my study first. So i think what she said is quite true. Think more will make me become a schizophrenic. LOLs...
Let's stop here... to be continue...
The life of being a student really not easy. Especially your course is a five years course and you deal with human beings. The long duration make me suffocated. I think the same applied to my coursemates also. When your friends start graduate and working while you still a student. The gap between us will eventually grow wider. Dealing with patients is really not easy. Somemore i am just a student and sometime the patient will say " i thought is the doctor will do treatment on me." Somemore we need to follow the proper examination and diagnosis, it make each appointment takes a longer time and patients need to come frequently. That really depends on the compliance of the patients. But my lecturer told us that we must polish the way we communicate with the patients in order to gain the confidence of patient on us who are still a student.
Then as we grow older, we start to bore with the single life and prefer someone to accompany us and give us encouragement and share the hustle bustle of everyday life. We some ppl started to look for a companion. Some ppl are very brave to look for one and take initiative to start a relationship. Some ppl need the courage from his/her friends that around to take initiative. Some will ask the admire one to go out and trying to see if they are mean to be together. Some will just sit and wait for god to give him/her one. I cant comment on this coz i am still single and i don really wan a relationship by now. So ppl, when you see what i had written here... NO OFFENCE ah... ( my coursemates like to say NO OFFENCE recently)
Nothing is permanent. This is according to Buddism. I fully agree with this simple yet cruel truth. That is why the american president say CHANGE. Recently the world really change a lots. The weather is changing. The people is changing. The goverment is changing. Everything is changing. Myself is also changing. Sometime im wondering what do i wan actually? I wan money? family? love? spiritual? I am lost. At first i choose dentistry as my future field because i wan to help ppl especially those who are poor and cant affort the bill. But now i start thinking to make money future. I wan to be a specialist dentist coz i wan to earn more. I really hate myself sometime. HAHA. But my mom asked me not to think so much. Concentrate on my study first. So i think what she said is quite true. Think more will make me become a schizophrenic. LOLs...
Let's stop here... to be continue...
2010年2月20日星期六
2010年1月10日星期日
Summary of the first week of 2010
The best word to summarize my first week of 2010 is BUSY.
Monday: I been busy for the reading the oral pathology text book coz got one presention on thursday. I also need to prepare the power point for it.
Tuesday: I went to HUKM to attent the 8th dental students' colloquium. It is interesting and i really learn a lot from this events.
Wednesday: study hard for oral pathology and also the Oral surgery seminar.
Thursday: Morning got OP presentation and afternoon got OS seminar. The overall of the OP presentation is good. Dato prof. dr hashim said the presentation is well done. The os seminar also not bad. hehe....
Friday: Read the very thick periodontology text book.
Saturday: Relaxing. Went to mid valley to meet my friends. Night time i did vacum and mop my hostel.
Sunday: Attenting the MDA public forum. Completed the perio assignment.
Monday: I been busy for the reading the oral pathology text book coz got one presention on thursday. I also need to prepare the power point for it.
Tuesday: I went to HUKM to attent the 8th dental students' colloquium. It is interesting and i really learn a lot from this events.
Wednesday: study hard for oral pathology and also the Oral surgery seminar.
Thursday: Morning got OP presentation and afternoon got OS seminar. The overall of the OP presentation is good. Dato prof. dr hashim said the presentation is well done. The os seminar also not bad. hehe....
Friday: Read the very thick periodontology text book.
Saturday: Relaxing. Went to mid valley to meet my friends. Night time i did vacum and mop my hostel.
Sunday: Attenting the MDA public forum. Completed the perio assignment.
2010年1月6日星期三
草食男
所谓的“草食男”，就是像食草动物一样，他们友善温和，但在婚恋关系上却总
少了些男子汉应有的主动，所以他们最大的特征就是
不会积极去追求恋爱或性爱方面的事情，而喜欢保持不温不火的步调和女孩子在一起。
放眼望去，你就会发现80、90后的男人越来越多地具备了“草食性”倾向，
一场“草食化运动”似乎在全世界的男人中悄然兴起。
之所以会产生这样的现象，主要有几个原因：
首先，飞速变化的成长环境影响了他们的性格。
当代“草食男”从出生到现在，这短短的二三十年其实是世界变化最快的时期。
因为外界变化大，所以他们对未来有着很多焦虑和不确定性，由此就缺乏了自信与激情。
上一个时代的男人通常认为，凡事只要努力就一定有所收获，而这个时代的年轻男人就大大不同，
感到很多事情不是自己所能掌控的，因此也就贴上了“草食男”的基本标签：
缺乏自信，也缺乏生活激情，而这一点很容易就会反映到他们的婚姻经营上头。
第二，经济压力过大。
这缘于过去二十年来房价、物价的飞速上涨。对一个刚开始工作的年轻男子来说，
要买车买房，其实压力是不小的。婚姻还需经济实力的支持，
所以迫于经济压力，他们对婚姻的态度是很好，但不需强求。
第三，个性比较被动，既不愿承担过多责任，也不想受到太多伤害。
“草食男”的逻辑是，如果过于积极主动地追求女性，最后可能会惹来一堆麻烦，
甚至会让自己受到无谓的伤害，所以他们就沿袭了草食性动物的本性——
温和、友善、被动、攻击性低、没有很大的成就动机，
认为“你爱我很好，你不爱我也无所谓，我不一定需要轰轰烈烈的爱情。”
很多时候你会发现，跟他们的关系总是处于“比友情多，但不及爱情”的状态。
相对于“肉食男”一旦嗅到爱情的气息，就会积极地发动攻势将爱情揽入怀中，
“草食男”的哲学是，敌不动我不动
我是否是草食男？
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